Celebrate Love This Valentine’s Day—Without All the Plastic

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Celebrate love this Valentine’s Day — without all the plastic. While we’re all for a holiday celebrating love, we’re not in love with the rise of single-use plastic and consumerism that has almost come to define Valentine’s Day. With all the candy wrappers and plastic packaging for flowers, synthetic stuffed animals, and other wasteful gifts that pile up on this holiday alone, many people are looking for ways to celebrate love that’s better for people and our Earth. 

As it turns out, there are plenty of plastic-free gift ideas and ways to celebrate love that do not compromise on creativity or thoughtfulness. Whether it’s for a friend, partner, pet, or yourself, we are excited to share more sustainable suggestions. 

Plastic-Free Gift Ideas for Any of Your Loved Ones

Here are some gift ideas for friends and loved ones that are both meaningful and sustainable:

Give experiences over things: Consider gifting an experience like a movie night at home, painting and wine night, pottery class, or even a camping trip. If you’re feeling ambitious, you can coordinate a homemade dinner along with the movie of your choice (like making heart-shaped pizzas together for Mystic Pizza night, for example). Pairing whatever experience you choose with handmade paper or even a wooden card or “coupon” for a fun experience can be the icing on the cake.

Bake homemade goodies: Bake treats like brownies, cinnamon rolls, cookies, or cupcakes, and wrap them in reusable fabric or parchment paper. You can also gift them in a reusable metal tin or large glass jar instead of single-use aluminum foil or plastic wrap. Serve your goodies on a reusable ceramic, glass, or metal platter.

Gift (or make your own) handmade jewelry: Support artists by buying handmade, sustainable jewelry made from natural materials like metals, stones, or wood that are ethically sourced. You can find plastic-free pieces from artisans on platforms like Etsy or at local craft markets. If you’re crafty, doing your own metal stamping and jewelry crafting will allow you to make customized bracelets and rings—without using plastic. Wrap jewelry in cotton or linen cloth scraps made from sample fabrics or upcycled clothing you no longer wear, and tie them into bags with natural twine.

Make jars of homemade self-care supplies or tasty foods: You can make small jars of homemade granola, honey, or jam, or take it to the next level by making your own simple skincare supplies using natural ingredients like aloe, beeswax, coconut oil, and shea butter. Reuse glass jars, stainless steel, or tin containers you already have on hand, or find these at low cost at secondhand or swap shops to store your goodies.

Upcycled or vintage items: Instead of buying new gifts, why not find an “already loved” secondhand or vintage item to give instead? Whether it’s a piece of artwork or a unique jewelry holder, these items carry their own character and history and are usually not packaged in plastic packaging. And you can tell your friend the story of how you found it and thought of them.

Donate in honor of a loved one: A donation to an important cause is a great way to show you care. You can donate to Plastic Pollution Coalition in honor of a loved one and they’ll receive an email letting them know you did.

Plastic-Free Gifts for the Green Thumb

Flowers are a classic Valentine’s Day gift, but most store-bought bouquets come with multiple toxic burdens—unless locally and organically grown—they are often grown with pesticides to be shipped long distances and sold wrapped in plastic. Look for sustainably sourced flowers that have minimal packaging, or better yet, choose a plant (or propagate your own) that can be kept and grown by your loved one. Some choices include:

Foraging for wildflowers: If in season, and you have a backyard that grows wildflowers or live near an area where you can pick a bundle legally, wildflowers can be a lovely way to show someone you were thinking of them.

Locally and organically grown flowers: If you opt for a fresh flower bouquet, try to scope things out ahead of time and find a local flower farm that uses sustainable, pesticide-free growing practices. They’re less likely to come wrapped in plastic and often have biodegradable packaging—like banana leaves or paper.

Potted plants: Cacti, herbs, or succulents can last for years (if cared for properly) and won’t be thrown away after a week or so, unlike fresh flowers.

Propagate: If you have your own plants and can propagate them, giving a custom propagation (or two) planted in a pot is a thoughtful gift. Most of your friends will love this one, especially if you make a fun custom care “manual” for their new plant friend.

Plastic-Free Gifts for Your Pets

Photo by Amelia Hanson

Who says pets can’t have a little fun too? They’re often the ones who give us the most love day-to-day. If you’re single or just want to make sure your furry friend feels a little extra love around the holiday, we’ve got you covered.

Eco-friendly toys + handmade gifts: Look for toys made from natural materials like hemp, organic cotton, or wool. Some brands sell chew toys made from plant-based materials like coffee wood. You can also make pet toys from items you already have, like old cotton t-shirts braided into ropes for dogs or cardboard boxes for a cat’s playhouse. If your pet doesn’t mind wearing accessories, you could make or buy a handmade plastic-free fabric bandana for them.

Homemade treats: Make your own healthy pet treats using natural ingredients that are not packaged in plastic. You can find simple recipes online that require things like peanut butter, pumpkin, and oats. You can even make cupcakes for your pet (like dog-friendly peanut butter pupcakes).

Nature walk or hike: Take your pet for a special stroll in the park or go on a nature hike together and pack a picnic for both of you. If you live near a pet-friendly beach or park, plan an outing to let your pet socialize while getting outside.

Plastic-Free Gifts for Your Sweetheart

Create a love jar: A “love jar” is inexpensive, yet packs an emotional punch (and is plastic-free)! This can be a glass jar filled with small notes folded up on strips of paper where you write short love notes, poems, or future date ideas on recycled paper. When you’re feeling loving, write them down, fold them up, and put them in the jar. This can also simply be a compliment jar, where you fill it with all of your favorite things about that person and your memories together.

DIY Valentine’s Day card: Instead of buying a card with plastic finishes or embellishments, why not make your own out of sustainable materials? You can use recycled paper, old magazines, cardboard, fabric scraps, pressed flowers, or even wood to create something that feels truly customized to your partner.

Eco-friendly candles: Candles set the romantic lighting mood with low lighting, but many conventional candles are made with petroleum-based paraffin wax and come in plastic packaging. Opt for candles made from beeswax, plant-based materials, or soy wax that are scented with natural oils. These are biodegradable and often come in glass or metal containers that can be reused or truly recycled.

Plastic-free dinner date: Restaurants are always crowded on Valentine’s Day, so why not plan a special one-on-one dinner for your significant other? You can make it plastic-free by:

  • Cooking at home: Choose local, organic ingredients to prepare a home-cooked meal. Cooking together can also be a fun experience, especially if you offer to make your partner’s favorite dish.
  • Choosing reusable dinnerware: You can always pack up your dinner and enjoy the sunset at a local park. If you’re planning a romantic picnic, avoid single-use plates, cups, and utensils. Go for reusable options like bamboo or ceramic plates, cloth napkins, and stainless steel cutlery and drink bottles.

Decorating with edible or dried flowers: Instead of buying fresh flowers, create an edible flower garnish or a bouquet made of dried flowers. Twine and greenery (e.g., a eucalyptus sprig) is a nice touch, or you can buy a few individual roses that aren’t packaged in plastic and spread the petals.

Plastic-Free Ways to Show Love to People & the Planet

This Valentine’s Day, you can choose to celebrate love by gifting sustainably without plastic. Want to make a difference all year round? Take the pledge to refuse single-use plastic. You can also donate to Plastic Pollution Coalition to show some love to our team and help support the work we do every day toward a better world for us all.

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If you’re looking for people- and planet-friendly ideas for weddings and commitment ceremonies (or any celebrations of love), there are many ways to show your love without plastic. The wedding industry generates tons of plastic pollution, with the average wedding estimated to produce around 400 pounds of garbage and the equivalent of 63 tons of carbon dioxide—yet there are plenty of ways to make your big day stunning while still keeping it sustainable. No matter how you choose to celebrate, we’ve gathered some plastic-free wedding and reception ideas to help you be kinder to people and the planet. Even if you’re unable to eliminate plastic completely, implementing just a few of these suggestions can help significantly reduce wastefulness and plastic pollution.

Best Practices for Eco-Friendly Catering and Dining

Catering waste can be staggering at large gatherings, with mountains of plastic single-use cups, plates, and utensils discarded as garbage by the end of the event. Here are some ways to make your event catering and dining more sustainable:

Choose family-style service: Instead of offering guests plated meals with individual portions, opt for family-style eating to reduce food waste and allow guests to choose their own portion sizes. Encourage close friends and family members to take home leftovers in reusable containers when the party is over.

Opt for local and organic food: Choose locally grown, organic food options delivered in bulk without packaging for your catering and dining when you can.

Select reusable dinnerware: Skip plastic single-use plates and utensils in favor of reusable foodware. If you can’t choose reusable, look for compostable foodware made from bamboo or palm leaves. If choosing single-use, truly biodegradable, nontoxic options are the way to go. Beware of bioplastics, which can be just as wasteful as plastics and create similar types of pollution and health hazards.

Choose a Plastic-Free Wedding Cake

Wedding cakes are sometimes covered in plastic toppers and wrapped in cling film, but you can avoid that with these alternatives:

Local bakeries: Support local bakeries or individual bakers who make sustainable practices a priority and ask if they use plastic in their cake designs. You can ask your baker to leave off the usual plastic decorations and deliver in paper boxes instead of plastic.

Naked cakes: Choose a minimalist “naked” cake made without fondant or excessive packaging. These cakes often feature fresh flowers or organic fruit, which can be composted if uneaten.

Choose a Sustainable Venue + Zero-Waste Decor

A South Carolina backyard wedding.

Your choice of venue can make a huge difference in its sustainability. Look for venues that provide the ambiance you’re looking for and require minimal additional decoration. Ask yourself: Is the location naturally beautiful? Does it have good lighting, with elements you love already built in? A local natural space, a spacious backyard, or a place of worship with these elements incorporated can help you prevent making waste and save money.

Then there’s decorating for both the commitment ceremony and/or the reception. Traditional decorations like balloons, plastic flowers, and disposable tableware can be a major source of pollution. 

Instead, opt for decor that can be reused or composted, like:

Dried flowers: Dried bouquets, centerpieces, and flower arches are a beautiful, low-waste alternative to fresh or plastic flowers. You can also use eucalyptus sprigs or lavender bundles. These last long after the event and can be repurposed in your home as decorations or can even be added to a bath. If your heart is set on using fresh flowers, look for florists who prioritize organic farming and seasonal, locally grown flowers delivered in reusable or biodegradable packaging.

Repurposed or rented decor: Rather than buying new decor, consider renting wedding decor or reusing vintage items. Thrift stores and online marketplaces often have unique party decorations or housewares that can be used for celebrations, such as glass vases. Or, a friend or relative might have leftover decor from their celebrations of love that you can repurpose. 

Solar lights and LED candles: Instead of using disposable candles or plastic lanterns, choose energy-efficient LED lights or solar-powered options for soft lighting if you’re celebrating in the evening and need to shed some light.

How to Choose Sustainable Celebration Attire

Wedding gowns and bridesmaid dresses, tuxedos, and other celebratory attire are often only wastefully worn once. Fashion is a major contributor to plastic pollution and wastefulness, and the textile industry is rife with labor abuses, including child labor, low wages, and unsafe working conditions. Consider these alternatives to reduce the environmental and social impacts of your celebration attire:

Buy secondhand or vintage: Opt for a pre-loved wedding dress or vintage gown, tuxedo, or other clothing, and have it tailored. Look for attire made of natural fibers, like cotton or linen. Both brick-and-mortar shops and online businesses may specialize in high-quality secondhand wedding and celebration attire.

Rent your celebration attire: Renting your dress or tuxedo and encouraging your bridesmaids or groomsmen to rent theirs is another sustainable option that ensures that no one ends up buying a piece of clothing they’ll never wear again. 

Sustainable fabrics: If you choose to purchase new attire, look for designers who use plastic-free materials like organic bamboo, cotton, hemp, or linen; and designs you’re likely to wear more than once.

Opt for Plastic-Free Invitations (like Plantable Paper)

Invitations often come wrapped in plastic or have plastic embellishments, so look for handmade, recycled, or plantable paper and soy or other nontoxic plant-based inks when choosing yours. Digital invitations are also a sustainable option that can save money on postage, save paper, and plus, they can help you track RSVPs easily. You can create your own wedding website and digital invitations through a service like The Knot. If you prefer physical invites, look for companies specializing in eco-friendly stationery.

Plastic-Free Favor Ideas

Wedding favors are often wrapped in plastic or are sold in plastic packaging, but there are plenty of practical plastic-free alternatives:

Edible treats in reusable jars: Instead of distributing plastic-wrapped favors, give baked goods, handmade candy, local honey, or homemade jam in small glass jars. Your guests can reuse the jars once they are finished enjoying them.

Personalized cloth or stainless steel items: Custom cloth napkins, handkerchiefs, reusable tote bags, or stainless steel cups or bottles make fun reusable, plastic-free wedding favors that guests will actually use.

Plants and seeds: Give seed packets or small potted plants with native plants or edible herbs that guests can grow at home. 

Soaps and candles: Consider gifting small-batch plant-based soaps or hand-made beeswax or soy candles bundled with herbs or sprigs of dried flowers for a spring touch.

Swap out disposable cameras for an eco-friendly digital version: Let your friends and family take photos directly from their phone and share them with you instead of handing out plastic disposable cameras. This digital service (POV Camera) is easy to set up and will let guests upload their photos to a shared cloud. Plus, it doesn’t require your guests to download an app.

Here’s how it works:

Commitment ceremonies and other celebrations of love can be some of the most memorable days of our lives, and with planning, you can make them plastic-free (or very close to it)! By choosing plastic-free options whenever you can for invitations, decor, favors, and food, you can celebrate your love in ways that are good for both the people and the planet—and coincidentally good for your wallet, too.

Take Action

Want to make a difference beyond having a sustainable celebration? Take our 4Rs pledge (Refuse, Reuse, Reduce, Rethink) to cut down on your plastic consumption all year round.

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Looking for ways to spread the love this Valentine’s Day—without the plastic? Like many holidays, Valentine’s Day has unfortunately become synonymous with single-use plastics. You may be wondering if there are alternatives to shiny plastic-coated cards, plastic-wrapped chocolates and candies, bouquets of flowers in plastic film, and cheap synthetic stuffed animals that are forgotten or tossed within weeks. Thankfully, there are plenty of great ways to show your love to people, pets, the planet, and yourself that do not involve plastic! Here are five.

1. Give an experience rather than a thing.

A trip to a museum, a walk in a park, visit to the beach or other natural space, or going to a concert will provide a loved one with a memory, which can be more precious than a physical item. Let your presence be the present for pets too: Spend quality tranquil time with your furry and feathered friends— without your device. As their guardians, walks in nature and restful time spent together benefit all.

2. Make real things.

Homemade gifts carry more heart than anything premade or purchased from a store ever could. If you want to surprise your sweetie, or just brighten a special friend’s day, try making your own art. Create a collage card using old magazines, paint or draw a portrait or picture that captures a special moment from your shared history, embroider a pillow or embellish some clothing, or hand pour or dip a special candle. Look at what supplies you already have at home and let them inspire you to create something unique that your special someone can cherish forever. You might also share sustenance: Bake cookies, a cake, pie, or prepare a delicious meal with friends and family. Or give seeds, seedlings, living flowers, plants, fruit bushes, and trees—gifts that grow with us. With a little water, sunlight, love and attention, they keep giving.

3. Perform a random act of kindness.

Spend some time with a lonely neighbor or visit a nursing home. Be an active listener when in the company of others, write positive comments online, give genuine compliments to the people around you, and laugh while around others (it’s contagious). Donate a book you no longer need to your nearest little library, or clothes to a local shelter.

4. Show yourself some love.

Remember to show yourself some love in small ways too! Take a walk outside and get a fresh breath of air. Make yourself a warm cup of tea. Text a friend a funny gif that will make them belly laugh. Listen to your favorite songs from childhood and be sure to sing along. Dance to a song that makes you feel alive. Call a loved one you haven’t spoken to in awhile and see how they are doing. Do yourself one small favor the day before like setting up your coffee on a timer for the morning. Take a long shower and add some essential oils. Write a kind message to yourself that will make you feel loved.

5. Donate to or volunteer with a cause you care about.

Help make the world a better place for those you love by supporting a nonprofit organization whose mission is to do just that. It’s a gift both you and the recipient will feel great about! Even a small donation or volunteer effort can make a big difference.

With the news that microplastics have been found in human hearts and even affect our fertility, this Valentine’s Day is a great time to support real solutions to help build a just, equitable world free of plastic pollution. Please consider supporting our important work at Plastic Pollution Coalition.

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